I’m going through a transition. I guess this will be the biggest change in my life. Either I fall or I rise. I’m beginning to think a lot deeper about myself, my life, my surroundings, my world. Who am I?
Who am I? Where does this Me come from? When actually this Me was born? How I was born? What’s the purpose of my life? What do I want? What do this me want from me? Where in the end I’ll stand? Who are those people who wants me, loves me cares about me? Or is it just my thoughts that is trying to say that someone somewhere is there to love me, to embrace me, to care about me?
Everything seems so cloudy and dark at times. No matter how far, deep I try to get inside this thoughts, sometimes or most of the times I can’t figure them out. But I know somewhere inside something wants to know more about this self of mine. One questions that often haunts me is that Who am I or What am I?
How can I find all these answers and finally be able to find myself? Only questions are piling up in my thoughts. Everyday more and more. I have began to question myself about everything that I have experienced in life so far.
Who am I? – I noticed this thought comes to mind when you feel insecure about yourself and vulnerable. I am definitely in a situation that makes me feel like I’m right now fragile. I’m right now vulnerable. What is it that is triggering me? To be true my emotions, my feelings to understand those emotions, to feel it deeply, to be able to see through the thoughts, the people, the situation, to Love someone is the things that is triggering me.
This urge to know myself is overwhelming. Never before I ever thought about myself like this. Never. I have always put everyone else before me. Always loved people before me. Always took care of people before me. My love for Humans are a bit too much that I have lost myself in that. Or the other way I found myself in that. Not only it affects my personal life but it affects my work too. I get attach to my subjects, to those on whom I work on. my work becomes part of me. Finally being able to choose what I love to do most is to observe. That gives me the ability to define, to determine, to love to listen.
But that one things is crucial for my existence. It gives the eye, the voice, the words, the thoughts and adds the silence to my soul. I’ve decided to find myself, my soul. Break through the taboos and polish it all.
I always wanted someone to stand by me. By now I’ll stand by myself. Get out of the illusions of life and finally search for myself.
Have you ever thought like this about yourself? We always think about others. Maybe now it’s time to think about ourselves than others. Most of all think about our Happiness. Not by adding someone special in your life to break you down to pieces but by yourself.
It stills hurts to walk alone in life. It’s hard. But it’s worth it. Makes us who we are. We always have a choice. I am making my choice.
My choice is not to break down, my choice is not to fall apart. My choice is to become the person who once knew how the warmth a heart can be. How it is to have everything and not to have anything, how it is to have someone and then you don’t know if you have someone at all.
Strange isn’t it? That’s life. Now you are reading a part of someones Life. That is fascinating, that is amazing, that’s the truth and that is what attracts me towards Human, to their souls, to the stories.
If you find anything similar to my stories, please feel free to say it out loud. There is no shame to admit what life gives you. There is no shame to find yourself. And there is no shame to Love yourself for others.